Saturday, September 26, 2009

The Journey Continues...

After Bobbi-Jo's first experience, we had many evenings of conversation about the direction we would take. Her ads were bringing her literally hundreds of proposals from all corners of the world. One in particular caught her attention. he was coherent in what he said in his emails( a rarity). His conversations were both enticing and erotic, the decision was made by her to engage him for a date. A time and day was set, he would come to our home to meet us both, then they would go off on their date together. As the day approached, the level of sexual excitement in our home multiplied exponentially. Bobbi Jo chose a killer latex outfit with thigh high boots, and lots of bling to accent her outfit. On the day of the date, she prepared a full meal for the three of us, he would be our dinner guest, sitting across from me and next to Bobbi-Jo... the man that would in a short while have my wife in bed, using her for his sex toy!
Just before the doorbell rang, she looked into my eyes and told me, " You realize that in a very short while I will be having a full night of sex with a total stranger, I will give him no taboos, I will be his to use for his pleasures".
I nodded Yes, and we kissed. The bell rang, she ushered him into the house, put her arms around him and kissed him deeply. The tone for the night was set. Some small talk, and dinner progressed. As desert was finished, He looked at her and asked " Are you ready for a night of dirty down sex?". " I want to fuck every hole you have".
She looked at me first, then him, and replied with a loud YES.
He took her hand, and they walked out to his car, she looked back at me and smiled, then they disappeared.
About 3AM the next morning, I awakened to hear the door open, she walked up the stairs to our bedroom and asked if I was awake. With that, she crawled onto the bed, kissed me with her very salty mouth, and then lowered herself onto my face, my mouth immediately was filled with the results of her night our. After plenty of oral gratification, we proceeded to fuck wildly until we were both spent. Falling asleep together, I knew that this was to be the beginning of a wonderful part of our lives.
Empowered by her lustful encounter, we decided that we needed some clarity in our play. We decided to write a contract giving each of us clear duties and liberties. Several days of negotiations ensued, and finally a seven page document was completed and signed.
I will attach it to the blog soon as a model for all to see.
It was mutually decided that she would have the majority of liberties in our sexual games. I would be able to place an ad and engage women, but only if she approved of them first. I would also willingly accept chastity if she so decreed, and would wear a very severe stainless steel cock tube which would be locked on for periods that she was out playing, to eliminate the possibility of masturbation, or sexual contact with anyone else as long as she was out.
I also agreed to be fully responsible for cleaning her after her sex, by any means she requested, and to guaranteeing that I would duplicate the sexual play she had on her date when she returned home, should it be her wish..
She agreed to many aspects of sexual slavery as well, allowing me to train, punish, or mold her as I saw fit to do. She would be subject to encasement, bondage, whippings, floggings, and hooding as necessary. She agreed to become a Wild Hotwife, and as she put it, " A high class slut".
We both agreed to 3- somes, 4- somes and play with TG,CD, and TS persons , as long as we both could engage them together.
The stage was set!
The next day, I sat down and wrote my ad on Ashley Madison, the cheater's site. I received four replies in just a few days, all local ladies....
But that's the next chapter.

Friday, September 25, 2009

We begin the Journey..

Hello World,
This is my first attempt at Blogging, so please be patient with my efforts. First, a bit about me. I am happily married to another dedicated fetishist, service oriented slave and Hotwife. her blog appears here too, under Long Island Fetish Princess. I have been active in the "lifestyle" since the late 1970's. My first encounters were lustful nights at Plato's Retreat, Michael's ( on Long Island), The Castle, Couples, and many more. Since then I have been able to hone my persona to include the fetishes that I most enjoy. BDSM, latex , leather, Zentai, Mummification, Prolonged Encasement, Mud play, Food Play and severe corseting of lovely ladies are but a few.
As "normal" pursuits, I restore antique automobiles and enjoy Amateur radio.
In the 7 years that Bobbi Jo and i have been together, our play was mostly centered around ourselves. About a year ago, we were cruising the Web and saw a posting about a swinger's hotel party right in our area. After a short discussion, we decided to venture out and give it a try. Bobbi Jo said she was just going to " See what it was all about" and didn't intend to play.
Well... a half hour into the evening, and I found her naked, kneeling on the floor servicing a circle of about a dozen hot cocks that were stuck in her face. later that evening, she found her way onto a bed with a huge cock jammed into her hot ass, fucking her like a stallion.
That was our start... The ensuing days lead to discussions about how we continue the fun. it was decided that she would place ads on a few swinger's and cheater's sites. "Ashley Madison" was her first, followed by "Affair Connect"," Swinger's lifestyle" and of course, ALT,com.
Since then she has gotten over ONE THOUSAND emails..from all corners of the world.
reading those that were semi-sane, and close to us she decided to venture out and begin meeting guys. On her first date, she prepared her fetish outfit to excite( it did, at least me!) She came home looking like the cat that ate the canary. She gave me a big kiss and at once the familiar taste of saltiness was evident. She blushed and admitted that she had just finished giving the guy a blow job. I have to admit that I was never so turned on before. I pushed her tiny skirt up over her hips and took her right there. This has grown into what is commonly called HOTWIFING. I gain unbelievable excitement knowing that she is out on a date with a hot guy, being his sex toy for the evening, day, or weekend. Reading the available literature on the web, we found that this is also called Modern Day Cuckolding. The Hotwife is free to date, engage sex partners, and the husband is too, but only with his wife's permission, and her selection of his dates.
Feeling a bit guilty,I perceive, she suggested that I too place ads to find a playmate for my pleasures, while she is "otherwise engaged".
But, that is another chapter.