We begin the Journey..

Hello World,
This is my first attempt at Blogging, so please be patient with my efforts. First, a bit about me. I am happily married to another dedicated fetishist, service oriented slave and Hotwife. her blog appears here too, under Long Island Fetish Princess. I have been active in the "lifestyle" since the late 1970's. My first encounters were lustful nights at Plato's Retreat, Michael's ( on Long Island), The Castle, Couples, and many more. Since then I have been able to hone my persona to include the fetishes that I most enjoy. BDSM, latex , leather, Zentai, Mummification, Prolonged Encasement, Mud play, Food Play and severe corseting of lovely ladies are but a few.
As "normal" pursuits, I restore antique automobiles and enjoy Amateur radio.
In the 7 years that Bobbi Jo and i have been together, our play was mostly centered around ourselves. About a year ago, we were cruising the Web and saw a posting about a swinger's hotel party right in our area. After a short discussion, we decided to venture out and give it a try. Bobbi Jo said she was just going to " See what it was all about" and didn't intend to play.
Well... a half hour into the evening, and I found her naked, kneeling on the floor servicing a circle of about a dozen hot cocks that were stuck in her face. later that evening, she found her way onto a bed with a huge cock jammed into her hot ass, fucking her like a stallion.
That was our start... The ensuing days lead to discussions about how we continue the fun. it was decided that she would place ads on a few swinger's and cheater's sites. "Ashley Madison" was her first, followed by "Affair Connect"," Swinger's lifestyle" and of course, ALT,com.
Since then she has gotten over ONE THOUSAND emails..from all corners of the world.
reading those that were semi-sane, and close to us she decided to venture out and begin meeting guys. On her first date, she prepared her fetish outfit to excite( it did, at least me!) She came home looking like the cat that ate the canary. She gave me a big kiss and at once the familiar taste of saltiness was evident. She blushed and admitted that she had just finished giving the guy a blow job. I have to admit that I was never so turned on before. I pushed her tiny skirt up over her hips and took her right there. This has grown into what is commonly called HOTWIFING. I gain unbelievable excitement knowing that she is out on a date with a hot guy, being his sex toy for the evening, day, or weekend. Reading the available literature on the web, we found that this is also called Modern Day Cuckolding. The Hotwife is free to date, engage sex partners, and the husband is too, but only with his wife's permission, and her selection of his dates.
Feeling a bit guilty,I perceive, she suggested that I too place ads to find a playmate for my pleasures, while she is "otherwise engaged".
But, that is another chapter.